Grief triggers are a natural and inevitable part of the grieving process, and not all will be connected to negative feelings. When you experience a grief trigger after a loved one passes away, you are keeping their love alive and spirit awake. This is …
Grief is the psychological, behavioral, social, and physical response to a loss. There is no correct way to express grief and responses to losing a loved one are an entirely different from person to person. Grief can also be challenging as it can come …
When a loved one dies, survivors often seek to commemorate that individual through an obituary. Obituaries are death notices that often continue a biographical account of an individual’s life. Many funeral homes will assist families in drafting a death …
Grief is a natural and normal reaction to a loss of any kind. It is a journey of experiences and feelings in response to that loss and a process of life adjustment because of that loss. Grief is not an option, but a necessary mechanism for health and …
Want to spread the word about Carson’s Village? This brochure and flyer can be handed out by our villagers to any organization that might need to know about Carson’s Village. Download the Tri-fold Brochure | Download the One Page Flyer CV_Tri-fold_Eng …
Upon the death of a loved one, despite all the emotions and grief, there are logistical and practical concerns needed to be taken care of by the family. The following checklist details some possible immediate actions needed to be taken by the family me …
Loss can be incredibly challenging for children to process emotionally. Often, it can be hard to find the support children need, particularly if their caregivers are grieving as well. Below are some resources and organizations that provide services to …
Do you believe… “Mourning is the same as grieving” “There are orderly, predictable stages to grief” “The goal of grief is to move away from it, not toward it” Common myths can keep us from supporting one another, or ourselves in grief. Does …
Everyday occurrences can trigger an unexpected emotional reaction. We are not recommending or assuming any particular actions must be completed. This is only to help to identify what could trigger a response and is not an exhaustive list. Around the ho …
Depending on the circumstances of the death of your loved one, the media may be interested in sharing your story to local news, newspapers, or other publications. It is important to consider the full extent of talking to the media prior to agreeing to …
We celebrate many holidays throughout one year. Each family has special and specific holidays filled with traditions and rituals. Our memories of these holidays often bring a sense of joy, comfort and belonging. When a loved one dies these memories may …
Four things to know after a loved one has died: You may feel lost, helpless, empty, or even relieved. Any and all emotions are possible and acceptable. Each person mourns in their own way and in their own time. You might be overwhelmed, so use your …
Losing a loved one is heartbreaking and going through that person’s property can be difficult and painful. However, sorting through the items with a plan and good support can make the process easier. The deceased person’s will governs the way the asset …
There are several different populations to take into consideration when addressing death in a school. Making sure to adequately prepare the students, parents, and teachers is important and requires different approaches for each group. For students: Be …
Pets can be an integral part of any family as their companionship, emotional support, and unconditional love creates a strong bond. While it is easy to celebrate your pet’s birthdays, got-ya-days, and have them present for all your family’s milestones, …
When a loved one dies we are often left with complicated and overwhelming feelings. The person you loved is gone, yet all of their belongings remain. A part of you may say, “This is all just stuff, it isn’t really my loved one.” Yet it is the “stuff” t …
When a loved one passes away, there are so many things to consider, accompanied by a flood of emotions. Sometimes, you may feel lost and not even know where to begin, particularly as it relates to knowing what to do with a loved one’s remains. Some of …
Gathering an overall value of all the property a loved one has collected over a lifetime isn’t an easy task for anyone, much less someone who is grieving and has other executor duties on their plate. It is important to have a support system while you …
End-of-life documents, or documents that state your preferences for end-of-life care, ensure your wishes are followed prior to and following your death. All the following forms can be completed starting in adulthood and should be completed prior to inc …
It is a gift to those we love if we can share our voices and name how we would like to face life even as it comes to an end. As a caretaker, you can help your loved one to voice decisions concerning their care. Life and death discussions are challengin …
End of Life Pre-Planning, focuses on the steps you can take in advance of a loved-one passing or for yourself. While no one wants to think about the possibility of losing their loved ones, having the basics of a plan in place will help everyone in the …
Hospice can invoke a lot of anxiety and fear, however, better understanding the implications and processes within hospice can make the concept much more approachable with family and friends. Hospice refers to the special care patients receive when th …
Social workers are generally individuals who support people in improving their quality of life through counseling, advocacy, and reporting. They often help people through life changes with these skills and refer individuals to the best help in their co …
Things to consider for financing a funeral: Review the life insurance policy Check for low-cost burial options Consider a loan Ask other family members to assist with financial responsibilities Reach out to the religious community and crowdfunding Co …
Losing a loved one can be a challenging time emotionally and financially. As funeral costs continue to rise, it is useful to know the options for funding a gravestone, headstone, or grave marker. When shopping for funeral-related products, the Federal …
Find the graves of ancestors, create virtual memorials or add photos, virtual flowers, and a note to a loved one’s memorial. The resource “Find a Grave” is the world’s largest gravesite collection of over 180 million memorials created by the community …
Caskets can be a large, and sometimes unforeseen, expense when planning a funeral. While many factors influence the price of a casket, there are a large number of nationwide providers that supply low-cost options online. When ordering online it is impo …
An Executor is someone named in a will or appointed by the court to take care of a deceased person’s estate. Acting as an executor can take a lot of time and effort. Executors have a number of responsibilities. These duties will depend on the complexit …
Do: Ensure that life insurance policies intended to cover funeral expenses have not lapsed. If you have made prepayment arrangements, make sure that someone you trust knows about the arrangements you have made as well as the name of the funeral home. T …
The initial meeting with your chosen funeral home will take approximately 2.5 hours if the funeral home and cemetery are in close proximity; and longer if they are not in the same location. The following are items that should be discussed with the fami …
The funeral program (sometimes called a funeral brochure, pamphlet, or funeral order of service) is the printed document that is given out at the funeral or memorial service that outlines the key points in the funeral or memorial service and summarizes …
Thank you notes can be sent to thank attendees for coming or thank those who contributed to the funeral, and it can help convey your appreciation. This can be delegated to another family member to take the burden off. For helpful tips on writing thank …
Acute mourning: The initial phase of disorientation, dulled senses, denial, and yearning. Advance Directive: This is a general term describing two kinds of legal documents [See Living Will and Durable Powers of Attorney]. Such documents allow a person …
Green burial and cremation options are growing in popularity as an effort to decrease the environmental impact of traditional burials and cremation. Be sure to note that the main objective of green burials and cremations is to decrease environmental im …
Buckle up. Whether it is your first year or your 10th year without the person you love, the holiday season is going to be different than it was before. There are few things that are as triggering than the slogan around the holidays that, “This is the t …
The following is an excerpt from The National Alliance for Grieving Children (NAGC) Grief Talk: Talking to a Child or Teen to Let them Know Someone has Died. Provide Honest And Accurate Information When talking to anyone about death and dying, a good r …
Father’s Day can be an incredibly challenging time when dealing with the loss of a father or a child. Even in grief, Father’s Day can be a time to honor and remember the impact that your loved one’s have on your and your family’s life. Grieving the los …
Mother’s Day can be an incredibly challenging time when dealing with the loss of a mother or a child. Even in grief, Mother’s Day can be a time to honor and remember the impact that your loved one’s have on your and your family’s life. Grieving …
Clean Up Services Aftermath Services: 877-694-5139 (24/7) or www.aftermath.com Crime Scene Steri Clean: 888-577-7206 (24/7) or www.crimecleaners.com Consumer Reporting Agencies Equifax: 800.685.1111 or equifax.com Experian: 888.397.3742 or experian.co …
Holding Space for Others as They Grieve: How saying nothing at all is sometimes the best thing we can do for someone who is grieving. Stronger than ever is the need for nonverbal affirmation in today’s society. Our lives are ruled so much by a constant …
The first year after the death, you will experience and “live through” the firsts: birthdays, wedding anniversaries, and holidays. Below we offer tips and suggestions in managing and living through these “firsts”. Remember, some of these tips will appl …
When a person dies it is important to notify Social Security (*see note). Most funeral homes will report the death for families, once a social security number is provided during the funeral arrangement process. This takes a small part of the burden off …
Coping with loss takes time and impacts people differently, both emotionally and physically. Here we list resources to aid in the grieving process. *Carson’s Village does not endorse any of these services over another. Therapy: Psychology Today …
We are never fully ready to face the finality of death. We may think we can prepare or practice in anticipation of loss, but death can always surprise and everyone reacts differently. Beyond the sadness of loss, you may experience other sharp emotions …
A caregiver is someone who helps a person who needs assistance with daily activities due to aging, illness, disability or injury. Caregivers can play a significant role in an individual’s life, sometimes they are all the support that one has. Whether t …
Writing a sympathy card to someone after they lose a loved one can feel very difficult, and the right words can seem impossible to find. The most important part of a sympathy card is simply letting the bereaved know that you are thinking about them and …
When someone close to you passes away, dealing with the paperwork and legal process can seem rushed and formal. Knowing what you are facing ahead of time can help with potential difficulties down the road. Remember that a primary resource to you is w …
Losing an infant, stillbirth, and miscarriage can all be incredibly traumatic experiences. Often, it can be hard to find the support you want and need and relying on family can be difficult as well. Below are some resources and organizations that provi …
The period of grief experienced after the loss of a loved one can be a confusing and overwhelming time. There is no right way to grieve. Sometimes it comes in waves throughout a regular workday, and other times it hits you like a bag of bricks as you l …
Locating all the assets of a deceased loved one can be a daunting task. This task can be designated to the executor of the will, but it will be helpful if family members approach the project together. It is helpful to always have a copy of the death c …
Medicare and Medicaid are two programs that may be confusing to navigate after the loss of a loved one. The following is information regarding the differences between the programs, who is eligible for them, and how they might be useful in end-of-life m …
Adapted from What to Do When the Police Leave: A Guide to the First Days of Traumatic Loss 3rd Edition by Bill Jenkins A memorial is an object that serves a reminder of the memory of a loved one. There are many ideas for memorials. It is suggested to w …
The grieving process can promote feelings of helplessness and loneliness and dealing with loss can forever change the way we view the world. Recognizing the void that loved ones leave in our lives, hearts, and minds can be a very important part of the …
In these unprecedented pandemic times, funeral homes and families have needed to adapt to a new method of mourning. Families and friends are not always able to mourn via traditional funeral services. Currently, many loved ones do not feel comfortable t …
The holiday season is often depicted as a time of joy, togetherness, and celebration. For many, it is a cherished period filled with warmth and laughter. However, for those who are grieving the loss of a loved one, the holidays can be an emotionally ch …
Employer and Social Security – The Family Lead will need to know to notify the employer of the deceased, so the proper paperwork can be completed. This may affect payroll and benefits, as well as the general morale and work schedule of the deceased’s c …
Notification Letter to a Principal To (Principal Name, Title), (Name of school), (Address/ City) Date: DD-MM-YYYY Subject: Absence of (student’s name) for (number of days) due to the death of a loved one. Respected Sir/Madam, I am the parent/leg …
While the eligibility between whole-body versus organ donation varies, both are common end-of-life requests. Below are two different examples of services that facilitate organ and whole-body donation, respectively. Organ Donation – Southwest Transpla …
The Grief & Loss Center of North Texas has started a new Parent Group for Child Loss by Suicide. Services offered: Any parent who has lost a child to suicide no matter where they live is welcome. The group will meet virtually on Zoom the 3rd We …
Whether it’s the first or the twentieth, the anniversary of a loved one’s death can bring up a lot. Not only do you have to manage your own emotions, but you’ll likely hear from friends and family who want to check-in and process with you. So, what exa …
In the article, “What Costs Can the Estate Cover,” we mentioned that the executor of the estate is responsible for paying the bills of a passed loved one. If the executor is or will be you, then you may feel nervous at first, but the process of paying …
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Funerals for veterans aim to honor those who have served our country with traditional aspects such as the honor guard playing taps, the offering of a folded flag to the family, as well as other benefits and honors. These funerals are customizable, but …
Funerals and memorial services can be incredibly costly, with the average funeral costing almost $8,000, excluding the burial costs and obituary. Finding low-cost options to remember your loved ones may not look like a traditional funeral but can be ev …
Using poetry funeral readings is a popular way to personalize a funeral or memorial service. In addition to reading peotry during the actual funeral or memorial service, many people include poetry in the printed funeral program. You can select a poem t …
What is Probate? Probate is a legal process of administering a person’s estate after their death. The process ensures that the will is valid and that there is an executor appointed to handle all of the decisions that revolve around the estate. Speci …
Religion and spirituality can be a great help during a time of loss. Yet a significant loss also may cause you to question everything, including your faith. This may initially feel like a compounded loss adding to the grief you’re already experiencing. …
Adult The Comfort Book by Matt Haig Courage to Grieve: Creative Living, Recovery and Growth Through Grief, by J. Tatelbaum Dying Well: The Prospect for Growth at the End of Life, by Ira Byock A Grace Disguised by Jerry Sittser Grief is Love b …
General Announcement Subject: Sad News It is with a very heavy heart that I am sharing that NAME’s (father/mother/husband/wife/son/daughter) unexpectedly passed away on DATE. The family is devastated and needs our support more than ever. No arrangeme …
Funeral homes provide services and support to families facing imminent (hospice) and at-need death situations. Funeral homes or mortuaries are on-call when a death occurs and most are available to support families 24/7, 365 days a year. They are respon …
Transporting a body can be complicated and involve many different agencies. Here is a helpful starting point for the process of shipping a body. A Carson’s Village Advocate can help you get in touch with the right people and help you find the best opti …
Carson’s Village utilizes Signup Genius to organize the village. This is an easy way to help organize friends and family that would like to offer assistance. This form provides the family idea options that can be used to help support them. It is im …
Communications should start with immediate family members and close friends. The family can determine how they need to facilitate this communication. Once immediate family, friends and clergy have been notified, then extended friends and family should …
In this day and age, many people use social media to communicate and share information. This can prove very beneficial to the family but may also cause confusion and hurt feelings. Review these tips to ensure social media is used as a support to the fa …
Seeking support after loss can already be a very challenging task, and finding support resources in the language you speak is all the more important. In recent years, more and more services are becoming available for Spanish-speaking communities, parti …
Losing a life partner can be a very traumatic experience and result in heavy feelings of grief, sadness, and depression. Finding ways to cope and support oneself after losing a partner is essential to ensuring your own personal well-being and continuin …
The following is an excerpt from The National Alliance for Grieving Children (NAGC) Grief Talk: Talking to a Child or Teen to Let them Know Someone has Died. Considerations For School-Age Children (7 – 12 years): • Review the child’s understanding of t …
The following is an excerpt from The National Alliance for Grieving Children (NAGC) Grief Talk: Talking to a Child or Teen to Let them Know Someone has Died. Considerations For Teenage Children (13+ years): • Provide a familiar, distraction-free enviro …
The following is an excerpt from The National Alliance for Grieving Children (NAGC) Grief Talk: Talking to a Child or Teen to Let them Know Someone has Died. Children as young as two will assume care of an adult who is grieving. They do not want to cau …
Children know things. They can sense when there is upheaval, sadness, longing, and fear. It is important to respond to your child in the most straightforward, age-appropriate way when a loved one has died. You may be inclined to use metaphors or euphe …
Whether it be a lack of support financially or emotionally, or a simple misunderstanding of the emotions involved, the period of grief experienced after the loss of a loved one can be a confusing and overwhelming time. There is no right way to grieve. …
Even if you decide not to use our free services, we still want to help. Here is a list of things to consider by topic that you are likely to face in the next few days: Working with the Medical Examiner/Law Enforcement: Once you leave the hospital you m …
Your best friend or family member is in pain and you aren’t sure what to say. Use this guide to help you with some examples of things to say in this difficult time. It is important to understand there is nothing you can say at this moment to take awa …
Even if you decide not to use our free services, we would still like to help. Following is a list of some things to consider as you face the first few days after your loss: It is important for the family to say “yes” to offers of help. It can be difficul …
When a loved one passes away, there are many things to consider besides the grieving process. Although it may seem overwhelming to mourn and to take care of business, these things can happen simultaneously. Keep in mind, a loved one who wants to ensu …
Choosing a casket: Caskets can often be the most expensive part of a funeral. There are many different options to choose from. Most funeral homes will have a broad selection of offerings. Caskets can range from a couple of hundred dollars to tens of …
When a person works, a part of their earnings are taxed and set aside by the government for Social Security. This is a mandatory contribution for all workers, which is eventually paid out as a retirement benefit to eligible workers and retirees. The …
With the help of some state governments or specific counties within the state, it is possible to have a more affordable funeral for a loved one. Here is a link to all of the known resources.
You can fill out a form with all the information to bring with you with this downloadable PDF: Vital Statistics for Death Certificate or by printing the image below.
This article serves as a general guide and shouldn’t be substituted for the advice of a professional lawyer. For personal matters regarding individual estates, consult an attorney. After someone close to us passes away, our worlds are turned upside d …
The following article is not meant as a substitute for the advice of a professional attorney. It is a broadly written guide. For specific questions pertaining to financial matters, please consult an attorney. When a family member or person close to u …
Estate: The total of an individual’s assets, minus all the current debts. Estate does not include shared assets, pensions, or life insurance policies that have a designated beneficiary. What is Considered Part of the Estate? Assets: Personal poss …
What is cremation? Cremation is the reduction of a body to ash and bone fragments through the use of very high heat. In, general, cremation can be a lower-cost alternative to a traditional burial as you can reduce funeral home, cemetery, and headstone …
When someone in your family passes away, and you were not close to that person, it can cause you to feel mixed emotions. There may be a sense of relief, a feeling of guilt, sometimes anger, and possibly confusion. The truth is, no one can tell you how …
The following is a general overview of what the process of bill paying looks like after a loved one passes away. It is not a substitute for the advice of an experienced attorney. For specific questions regarding the estate and other financial questions …
Many people who have survived a miscarriage initially associate the experience with shock and loss: a loss of life, a loss of self. Here are some words of comfort while you move forward and take this healing journey. Breathe. When a person experience …
Struggling to return to work after the loss of a loved one? Or do you work with someone who is returning to work while still grieving and you don’t know what to say? Carson’s Village can help. Visit our resource pages to access return to work aids that …
Eulogies are a unique way to memorialize a loved one during a funeral, memorial, or graveside service. The eulogy offers a way to say farewell to the deceased and an opportunity to reminisce and share memories with other survivors. It is often the last …
Grief triggers are a natural and inevitable part of the grieving process, and not all will be connected to negative feelings. When you experience a grief trigger after a loved one passes away, you are keeping their love alive and spirit awake. This is …
Grief is the psychological, behavioral, social, and physical response to a loss. There is no correct way to express grief and responses to losing a loved one are an entirely different from person to person. Grief can also be challenging as it can come …
When a loved one dies, survivors often seek to commemorate that individual through an obituary. Obituaries are death notices that often continue a biographical account of an individual’s life. Many funeral homes will assist families in drafting a death …
Grief is a natural and normal reaction to a loss of any kind. It is a journey of experiences and feelings in response to that loss and a process of life adjustment because of that loss. Grief is not an option, but a necessary mechanism for health and …
Want to spread the word about Carson’s Village? This brochure and flyer can be handed out by our villagers to any organization that might need to know about Carson’s Village. Download the Tri-fold Brochure | Download the One Page Flyer CV_Tri-fold_Eng …
Upon the death of a loved one, despite all the emotions and grief, there are logistical and practical concerns needed to be taken care of by the family. The following checklist details some possible immediate actions needed to be taken by the family me …
Loss can be incredibly challenging for children to process emotionally. Often, it can be hard to find the support children need, particularly if their caregivers are grieving as well. Below are some resources and organizations that provide services to …
Do you believe… “Mourning is the same as grieving” “There are orderly, predictable stages to grief” “The goal of grief is to move away from it, not toward it” Common myths can keep us from supporting one another, or ourselves in grief. Does …
Everyday occurrences can trigger an unexpected emotional reaction. We are not recommending or assuming any particular actions must be completed. This is only to help to identify what could trigger a response and is not an exhaustive list. Around the ho …
Depending on the circumstances of the death of your loved one, the media may be interested in sharing your story to local news, newspapers, or other publications. It is important to consider the full extent of talking to the media prior to agreeing to …
We celebrate many holidays throughout one year. Each family has special and specific holidays filled with traditions and rituals. Our memories of these holidays often bring a sense of joy, comfort and belonging. When a loved one dies these memories may …
Four things to know after a loved one has died: You may feel lost, helpless, empty, or even relieved. Any and all emotions are possible and acceptable. Each person mourns in their own way and in their own time. You might be overwhelmed, so use your …
Losing a loved one is heartbreaking and going through that person’s property can be difficult and painful. However, sorting through the items with a plan and good support can make the process easier. The deceased person’s will governs the way the asset …
There are several different populations to take into consideration when addressing death in a school. Making sure to adequately prepare the students, parents, and teachers is important and requires different approaches for each group. For students: Be …
Pets can be an integral part of any family as their companionship, emotional support, and unconditional love creates a strong bond. While it is easy to celebrate your pet’s birthdays, got-ya-days, and have them present for all your family’s milestones, …
When a loved one dies we are often left with complicated and overwhelming feelings. The person you loved is gone, yet all of their belongings remain. A part of you may say, “This is all just stuff, it isn’t really my loved one.” Yet it is the “stuff” t …
When a loved one passes away, there are so many things to consider, accompanied by a flood of emotions. Sometimes, you may feel lost and not even know where to begin, particularly as it relates to knowing what to do with a loved one’s remains. Some of …
Gathering an overall value of all the property a loved one has collected over a lifetime isn’t an easy task for anyone, much less someone who is grieving and has other executor duties on their plate. It is important to have a support system while you …
End-of-life documents, or documents that state your preferences for end-of-life care, ensure your wishes are followed prior to and following your death. All the following forms can be completed starting in adulthood and should be completed prior to inc …
It is a gift to those we love if we can share our voices and name how we would like to face life even as it comes to an end. As a caretaker, you can help your loved one to voice decisions concerning their care. Life and death discussions are challengin …
End of Life Pre-Planning, focuses on the steps you can take in advance of a loved-one passing or for yourself. While no one wants to think about the possibility of losing their loved ones, having the basics of a plan in place will help everyone in the …
Hospice can invoke a lot of anxiety and fear, however, better understanding the implications and processes within hospice can make the concept much more approachable with family and friends. Hospice refers to the special care patients receive when th …
Social workers are generally individuals who support people in improving their quality of life through counseling, advocacy, and reporting. They often help people through life changes with these skills and refer individuals to the best help in their co …
Things to consider for financing a funeral: Review the life insurance policy Check for low-cost burial options Consider a loan Ask other family members to assist with financial responsibilities Reach out to the religious community and crowdfunding Co …
Losing a loved one can be a challenging time emotionally and financially. As funeral costs continue to rise, it is useful to know the options for funding a gravestone, headstone, or grave marker. When shopping for funeral-related products, the Federal …
Find the graves of ancestors, create virtual memorials or add photos, virtual flowers, and a note to a loved one’s memorial. The resource “Find a Grave” is the world’s largest gravesite collection of over 180 million memorials created by the community …
Caskets can be a large, and sometimes unforeseen, expense when planning a funeral. While many factors influence the price of a casket, there are a large number of nationwide providers that supply low-cost options online. When ordering online it is impo …
An Executor is someone named in a will or appointed by the court to take care of a deceased person’s estate. Acting as an executor can take a lot of time and effort. Executors have a number of responsibilities. These duties will depend on the complexit …
Do: Ensure that life insurance policies intended to cover funeral expenses have not lapsed. If you have made prepayment arrangements, make sure that someone you trust knows about the arrangements you have made as well as the name of the funeral home. T …
The initial meeting with your chosen funeral home will take approximately 2.5 hours if the funeral home and cemetery are in close proximity; and longer if they are not in the same location. The following are items that should be discussed with the fami …
The funeral program (sometimes called a funeral brochure, pamphlet, or funeral order of service) is the printed document that is given out at the funeral or memorial service that outlines the key points in the funeral or memorial service and summarizes …
Thank you notes can be sent to thank attendees for coming or thank those who contributed to the funeral, and it can help convey your appreciation. This can be delegated to another family member to take the burden off. For helpful tips on writing thank …
Acute mourning: The initial phase of disorientation, dulled senses, denial, and yearning. Advance Directive: This is a general term describing two kinds of legal documents [See Living Will and Durable Powers of Attorney]. Such documents allow a person …
Green burial and cremation options are growing in popularity as an effort to decrease the environmental impact of traditional burials and cremation. Be sure to note that the main objective of green burials and cremations is to decrease environmental im …
Buckle up. Whether it is your first year or your 10th year without the person you love, the holiday season is going to be different than it was before. There are few things that are as triggering than the slogan around the holidays that, “This is the t …
The following is an excerpt from The National Alliance for Grieving Children (NAGC) Grief Talk: Talking to a Child or Teen to Let them Know Someone has Died. Provide Honest And Accurate Information When talking to anyone about death and dying, a good r …
Father’s Day can be an incredibly challenging time when dealing with the loss of a father or a child. Even in grief, Father’s Day can be a time to honor and remember the impact that your loved one’s have on your and your family’s life. Grieving the los …
Mother’s Day can be an incredibly challenging time when dealing with the loss of a mother or a child. Even in grief, Mother’s Day can be a time to honor and remember the impact that your loved one’s have on your and your family’s life. Grieving …
Clean Up Services Aftermath Services: 877-694-5139 (24/7) or www.aftermath.com Crime Scene Steri Clean: 888-577-7206 (24/7) or www.crimecleaners.com Consumer Reporting Agencies Equifax: 800.685.1111 or equifax.com Experian: 888.397.3742 or experian.co …
Holding Space for Others as They Grieve: How saying nothing at all is sometimes the best thing we can do for someone who is grieving. Stronger than ever is the need for nonverbal affirmation in today’s society. Our lives are ruled so much by a constant …
The first year after the death, you will experience and “live through” the firsts: birthdays, wedding anniversaries, and holidays. Below we offer tips and suggestions in managing and living through these “firsts”. Remember, some of these tips will appl …
When a person dies it is important to notify Social Security (*see note). Most funeral homes will report the death for families, once a social security number is provided during the funeral arrangement process. This takes a small part of the burden off …
Coping with loss takes time and impacts people differently, both emotionally and physically. Here we list resources to aid in the grieving process. *Carson’s Village does not endorse any of these services over another. Therapy: Psychology Today …
We are never fully ready to face the finality of death. We may think we can prepare or practice in anticipation of loss, but death can always surprise and everyone reacts differently. Beyond the sadness of loss, you may experience other sharp emotions …
A caregiver is someone who helps a person who needs assistance with daily activities due to aging, illness, disability or injury. Caregivers can play a significant role in an individual’s life, sometimes they are all the support that one has. Whether t …
Writing a sympathy card to someone after they lose a loved one can feel very difficult, and the right words can seem impossible to find. The most important part of a sympathy card is simply letting the bereaved know that you are thinking about them and …
When someone close to you passes away, dealing with the paperwork and legal process can seem rushed and formal. Knowing what you are facing ahead of time can help with potential difficulties down the road. Remember that a primary resource to you is w …
Losing an infant, stillbirth, and miscarriage can all be incredibly traumatic experiences. Often, it can be hard to find the support you want and need and relying on family can be difficult as well. Below are some resources and organizations that provi …
The period of grief experienced after the loss of a loved one can be a confusing and overwhelming time. There is no right way to grieve. Sometimes it comes in waves throughout a regular workday, and other times it hits you like a bag of bricks as you l …
Locating all the assets of a deceased loved one can be a daunting task. This task can be designated to the executor of the will, but it will be helpful if family members approach the project together. It is helpful to always have a copy of the death c …
Medicare and Medicaid are two programs that may be confusing to navigate after the loss of a loved one. The following is information regarding the differences between the programs, who is eligible for them, and how they might be useful in end-of-life m …
Adapted from What to Do When the Police Leave: A Guide to the First Days of Traumatic Loss 3rd Edition by Bill Jenkins A memorial is an object that serves a reminder of the memory of a loved one. There are many ideas for memorials. It is suggested to w …
The grieving process can promote feelings of helplessness and loneliness and dealing with loss can forever change the way we view the world. Recognizing the void that loved ones leave in our lives, hearts, and minds can be a very important part of the …
In these unprecedented pandemic times, funeral homes and families have needed to adapt to a new method of mourning. Families and friends are not always able to mourn via traditional funeral services. Currently, many loved ones do not feel comfortable t …
The holiday season is often depicted as a time of joy, togetherness, and celebration. For many, it is a cherished period filled with warmth and laughter. However, for those who are grieving the loss of a loved one, the holidays can be an emotionally ch …
Employer and Social Security – The Family Lead will need to know to notify the employer of the deceased, so the proper paperwork can be completed. This may affect payroll and benefits, as well as the general morale and work schedule of the deceased’s c …
Notification Letter to a Principal To (Principal Name, Title), (Name of school), (Address/ City) Date: DD-MM-YYYY Subject: Absence of (student’s name) for (number of days) due to the death of a loved one. Respected Sir/Madam, I am the parent/leg …
While the eligibility between whole-body versus organ donation varies, both are common end-of-life requests. Below are two different examples of services that facilitate organ and whole-body donation, respectively. Organ Donation – Southwest Transpla …
The Grief & Loss Center of North Texas has started a new Parent Group for Child Loss by Suicide. Services offered: Any parent who has lost a child to suicide no matter where they live is welcome. The group will meet virtually on Zoom the 3rd We …
Whether it’s the first or the twentieth, the anniversary of a loved one’s death can bring up a lot. Not only do you have to manage your own emotions, but you’ll likely hear from friends and family who want to check-in and process with you. So, what exa …
In the article, “What Costs Can the Estate Cover,” we mentioned that the executor of the estate is responsible for paying the bills of a passed loved one. If the executor is or will be you, then you may feel nervous at first, but the process of paying …
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Funerals for veterans aim to honor those who have served our country with traditional aspects such as the honor guard playing taps, the offering of a folded flag to the family, as well as other benefits and honors. These funerals are customizable, but …
Funerals and memorial services can be incredibly costly, with the average funeral costing almost $8,000, excluding the burial costs and obituary. Finding low-cost options to remember your loved ones may not look like a traditional funeral but can be ev …
Using poetry funeral readings is a popular way to personalize a funeral or memorial service. In addition to reading peotry during the actual funeral or memorial service, many people include poetry in the printed funeral program. You can select a poem t …
What is Probate? Probate is a legal process of administering a person’s estate after their death. The process ensures that the will is valid and that there is an executor appointed to handle all of the decisions that revolve around the estate. Speci …
Religion and spirituality can be a great help during a time of loss. Yet a significant loss also may cause you to question everything, including your faith. This may initially feel like a compounded loss adding to the grief you’re already experiencing. …
Adult The Comfort Book by Matt Haig Courage to Grieve: Creative Living, Recovery and Growth Through Grief, by J. Tatelbaum Dying Well: The Prospect for Growth at the End of Life, by Ira Byock A Grace Disguised by Jerry Sittser Grief is Love b …
General Announcement Subject: Sad News It is with a very heavy heart that I am sharing that NAME’s (father/mother/husband/wife/son/daughter) unexpectedly passed away on DATE. The family is devastated and needs our support more than ever. No arrangeme …
Funeral homes provide services and support to families facing imminent (hospice) and at-need death situations. Funeral homes or mortuaries are on-call when a death occurs and most are available to support families 24/7, 365 days a year. They are respon …
Transporting a body can be complicated and involve many different agencies. Here is a helpful starting point for the process of shipping a body. A Carson’s Village Advocate can help you get in touch with the right people and help you find the best opti …
Carson’s Village utilizes Signup Genius to organize the village. This is an easy way to help organize friends and family that would like to offer assistance. This form provides the family idea options that can be used to help support them. It is im …
Communications should start with immediate family members and close friends. The family can determine how they need to facilitate this communication. Once immediate family, friends and clergy have been notified, then extended friends and family should …
In this day and age, many people use social media to communicate and share information. This can prove very beneficial to the family but may also cause confusion and hurt feelings. Review these tips to ensure social media is used as a support to the fa …
Seeking support after loss can already be a very challenging task, and finding support resources in the language you speak is all the more important. In recent years, more and more services are becoming available for Spanish-speaking communities, parti …
Losing a life partner can be a very traumatic experience and result in heavy feelings of grief, sadness, and depression. Finding ways to cope and support oneself after losing a partner is essential to ensuring your own personal well-being and continuin …
The following is an excerpt from The National Alliance for Grieving Children (NAGC) Grief Talk: Talking to a Child or Teen to Let them Know Someone has Died. Considerations For School-Age Children (7 – 12 years): • Review the child’s understanding of t …
The following is an excerpt from The National Alliance for Grieving Children (NAGC) Grief Talk: Talking to a Child or Teen to Let them Know Someone has Died. Considerations For Teenage Children (13+ years): • Provide a familiar, distraction-free enviro …
The following is an excerpt from The National Alliance for Grieving Children (NAGC) Grief Talk: Talking to a Child or Teen to Let them Know Someone has Died. Children as young as two will assume care of an adult who is grieving. They do not want to cau …
Children know things. They can sense when there is upheaval, sadness, longing, and fear. It is important to respond to your child in the most straightforward, age-appropriate way when a loved one has died. You may be inclined to use metaphors or euphe …
Whether it be a lack of support financially or emotionally, or a simple misunderstanding of the emotions involved, the period of grief experienced after the loss of a loved one can be a confusing and overwhelming time. There is no right way to grieve. …
Even if you decide not to use our free services, we still want to help. Here is a list of things to consider by topic that you are likely to face in the next few days: Working with the Medical Examiner/Law Enforcement: Once you leave the hospital you m …
Your best friend or family member is in pain and you aren’t sure what to say. Use this guide to help you with some examples of things to say in this difficult time. It is important to understand there is nothing you can say at this moment to take awa …
Even if you decide not to use our free services, we would still like to help. Following is a list of some things to consider as you face the first few days after your loss: It is important for the family to say “yes” to offers of help. It can be difficul …
When a loved one passes away, there are many things to consider besides the grieving process. Although it may seem overwhelming to mourn and to take care of business, these things can happen simultaneously. Keep in mind, a loved one who wants to ensu …
Choosing a casket: Caskets can often be the most expensive part of a funeral. There are many different options to choose from. Most funeral homes will have a broad selection of offerings. Caskets can range from a couple of hundred dollars to tens of …
When a person works, a part of their earnings are taxed and set aside by the government for Social Security. This is a mandatory contribution for all workers, which is eventually paid out as a retirement benefit to eligible workers and retirees. The …
With the help of some state governments or specific counties within the state, it is possible to have a more affordable funeral for a loved one. Here is a link to all of the known resources.
You can fill out a form with all the information to bring with you with this downloadable PDF: Vital Statistics for Death Certificate or by printing the image below.
This article serves as a general guide and shouldn’t be substituted for the advice of a professional lawyer. For personal matters regarding individual estates, consult an attorney. After someone close to us passes away, our worlds are turned upside d …
The following article is not meant as a substitute for the advice of a professional attorney. It is a broadly written guide. For specific questions pertaining to financial matters, please consult an attorney. When a family member or person close to u …
Estate: The total of an individual’s assets, minus all the current debts. Estate does not include shared assets, pensions, or life insurance policies that have a designated beneficiary. What is Considered Part of the Estate? Assets: Personal poss …
What is cremation? Cremation is the reduction of a body to ash and bone fragments through the use of very high heat. In, general, cremation can be a lower-cost alternative to a traditional burial as you can reduce funeral home, cemetery, and headstone …
When someone in your family passes away, and you were not close to that person, it can cause you to feel mixed emotions. There may be a sense of relief, a feeling of guilt, sometimes anger, and possibly confusion. The truth is, no one can tell you how …
The following is a general overview of what the process of bill paying looks like after a loved one passes away. It is not a substitute for the advice of an experienced attorney. For specific questions regarding the estate and other financial questions …
Many people who have survived a miscarriage initially associate the experience with shock and loss: a loss of life, a loss of self. Here are some words of comfort while you move forward and take this healing journey. Breathe. When a person experience …
Struggling to return to work after the loss of a loved one? Or do you work with someone who is returning to work while still grieving and you don’t know what to say? Carson’s Village can help. Visit our resource pages to access return to work aids that …
Eulogies are a unique way to memorialize a loved one during a funeral, memorial, or graveside service. The eulogy offers a way to say farewell to the deceased and an opportunity to reminisce and share memories with other survivors. It is often the last …
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